Dating is a pretty vital part of a relationship. Whether it is starting off a relationship on a blind date or dating your husband or wife of 25 years, dates are important to get to know somebody and keep up a healthy relationship. It is a time to go out (or stay in, for that matter), not worry about the little issues of life, and just enjoy the presence of your partner.
Some pretty standard dates are dinner, coffee (or tea), and movie dates. In my relationship, we have resolved to keep things fun with other types of dates. We typically pair a fun activity with lunch or dinner (or sometimes breakfast if I am lucky, since he is not a breakfast person). As college students, we are on pretty tight budgets, so we try to keep our dates relatively inexpensive.
Inexpensive Date Ideas
Here is a list of fun and inexpensive dates for couples who are just starting out, couples who have been married for a long time, and anyone in between!
Taking turns planning picnics or planning one together can be a lot of fun. If you prepare the food at home, this can be super inexpensive. It can also be super convenient to grab take out and a blanket and head over to a nearby park!
I absolutely love grocery shopping and cooking with my boyfriend. This may not be something that is fun for couples that are married or live together, but I only see my boyfriend about every other weekend. We like to go out sometimes, but typically we prefer to just relax, and eating in is the perfect opportunity for that.
Okay, so not everybody has the luxury of being as close to the beach as we are, but if you are, I strongly recommend beach dates. The beach is great at any time of the day for different activities. Walks on the beach are nice in the morning and evening and lounging, swimming, and playing are nice during the day! This can also be inexpensive if you find somewhere inexpensive to park and come prepared with water, snack, sunblock, and other beach supplies.
Museums & Art Galleries
There are so many different kinds of museums to choose from. Many museums and galleries offer student or resident discounts or free admission, so check for this ahead of time! If you get to a museum that turns out to be not very interesting to you, I suggest making jokes about all of the exhibits with your significant other. This may not be the most “grown up” option, but if your jokes are quiet enough, nobody will get offended and you will have a fantastic time (trust me here!)
Visiting the Pet Store
Okay so I am a strong supporter of the “Adopt, Don’t Shop” movement due to horrid situations with puppy mills and over breeding, but I do love to visit the pet store to play with puppies. The best part is that it is FREE! Anybody can go into a pet store and play with puppies (and sometimes kittens and rabbits, too). That being said, you could also go to a humane society but those are typically places that I would only go since the employees are often volunteers and have real work to do.
Trip to the Zoo
Although there are many ethical implications with zoos, I see no issue paying to go to a zoo that is known to treat their animals with love and respect. Many zoos offer students and package discounts. Make sure to look into pricing beforehand!
Barnes & Noble (Bookstore)
Maybe my boyfriend and I are just huge nerds, but we love to go to the book store. Our taste in books is very different, so we often show each other books we are interested in or book that we have read and loved. I think this is also a really cool way to get to know somebody!
What is more fun that a little fun [competitive] game of bowling and some crappy bowling alley pizza? This can get pricey, but I have found some great Groupons that make it just as affordable as a movie date!
Indoor Trampoline Park
I asked multiple people what the most fun date would be and the majority said trampoline park. I have never actually been to one, but I did some research and found that although they are a bit pricey, many parks offer Groupons which greatly cuts the price!
Painting With a Twist
There are so many “cocktails & painting” places, such as painting with a twist, that can turn you from a stick figure sketcher to a master of the canvas. If you cannot find a good deal on one of these places, it does not cost much to buy a couple canvases and some paints and follow a YouTube “paint party!”
Additional Saving Resources
If you are trying to save money, dating on a budget may only be one of your concerns. Feel free to browse my tips and tricks to saving money in all areas of your life.
- Student Discount Hacks
- How I Saved $4000 in One Summer
- How to Make Money on the Side
- Adopting a Frugal Lifestyle
- How to Have an Inexpensive Social Life
Grab your honey and save some money! What will you do for your next date?
A Stroll Back Memory Lane
In writing this post, I have realized that my boyfriend and I do not take many pictures on our dates besides the occasional low-quality selfie. Here are some pictures from our most fun dates (some not included in the list since they were more expensive)! Enjoy!
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It’s the First Day of Project LoveFest and it’s dedicated to Emily at TeaAddictsAnonymous!! Come read her article on fun date ideas! I’ll be rebloging more of her articles as the day goes on so don’t miss out!
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I took my fiance to a trampoline park last year for his 30th birthday… WE HAD A BLAST! We were definitely feeling our ages by the end of it, but we had so much fun. And we went during a ‘slow time’ (midday during the week) for them and got a discount!
I would add 2 things to this list: indoor rock climbing gym and an escape room. Climbing gyms are not only a great workout, they are a great way to show support and trust in your significant other. And escape rooms are awesome! I just did my first one last weekend with my fiance, and although we didn’t ‘escape,’ we had a blast, just the two of us, solving puzzles and strategizing together. 🙂